“Kids can do a lot of things in front of their parents without them knowing” says psychologist Anita Gurian in today's New York Times.

They always have been able to and that's why humanity endures: because the young ones take over with their cabals and imaginations.

Dad is in fact clueless. But that will be true for most of them when they get to the stage of having gone back on their promises to themselves not to grow old and to be there for their get.

Love.